Lubricants 101: How to Choose Yours
What is it for?
Lubricant makes everything smoother — literally.
It reduces friction, prevents discomfort, and helps you focus on pleasure, not adjustment.
Whether you’re using a toy, exploring with a partner, or enjoying solo time, lube can make the difference between “good” and “wow.”
Do I really need it?
Yes. Even if you “don’t think you do.”
Natural lubrication is great, but it varies — stress, hormones, and medications can affect it.
Lube enhances comfort, extends playtime, and helps you try new things (like anal play or tight toys) with less resistance.
Types of Lubricants — What's the Difference?
Silicone-Based
Long-lasting, ultra-slick
Not absorbed by the skin = stays
smooth
Do not use with silicone toys
Best for: Shower play, anal, extended
sessions
Check toy compatibility
Water-Based
Lightweight, smooth, easy to clean Compatible with all toys and condoms Great for beginners and everyday use Best for: Most situations May need reapplication during longer sessions
Hybrid (Water + Silicone)
A mix of both: longer-lasting than water, safer than pure silicone. Softer feel with fewer reapplications Often better for sensitive skin Best for: Balanced use across different types of play
Which One Is Right for You?
Toy play
Water-based
Anal play
Silicone or hybrid
Shower play
Silicone
Vaginal sensitivity
Water-based (gentle)
Long sessions
Hybrid or silicone
Using condoms.
Water or silicone
Tips
- Use more than you think — start generous
- Reapply if needed — especially with water-based
- Store away from heat — keep it cool, dry, and clean
- Check ingredients if you have sensitive skin (look for glycerin-free or aloe-based options)